Newbies Guide

Swinging is participating in temporary sexual activity with someone other 
than your partner, but with your partner's full knowledge and approval. 
Your partner may want to participate as well or might be happier for
just you to join in.

In this context, swinging isn’t cheating… cheating happens when full disclosure 
doesn’t occur. When there is sneaking around and lying and guilt.

How do you swing?

You meet  likeminded people briefly (this is called a swingers party)
 have awesome sex and then go home to your kids and your mortgage -  
where life resumes as normal!

Partner swapping is on the rise. 

You'll find swingers clubs in just about every capital city in the western world
and discrete swingers parties going on in just about every neighbourhood.
The popular SwingTowns website has listings of local swingers clubs and
 parties which are updated regularly.

 

What do other couples say about Swinging?

Couples tell us that swinging actually brings them closer together:

'We live out our fantasies with other couples, sexually we are back to 
the excitement and enthusiasm we had when we first met'.

 'We want to be together for the rest of our lives, but occasionally we would 
like to sleep with other people. Swinging allows us to do that without being 
unfaithful, when it's over we are the ones hugging each other back in our own bed'.

What are the rules?

There is an unspoken rule that there must be no emotional attachment when the 
sex is over. Remember, swinging is not about being unfaithful to your life partner.
Apart from that, the rule is 'do what ever you and your partner feel 
comfortable with and both consent to'. Some like both couples to have sex in
the same room, others prefer to split up and go to separate bedrooms - 
it's up to you.

What is a threesome?

Not all swinging involves a couple changing partners with another couple
(also called a Foursome). A threesome is where a man swings with two women 
or a woman enjoys an encounter with two men. For example, some husbands 
get a huge buzz from watching another man make love to his wife and then joining
in the fun to make sure she is fully satisfied. As we said: what ever you and your 
partner feel comfortable with and both consent to.

Hosting a Swing Party

Some of our readers are experienced in hosting a swing-party. However many are not and they are the target audience for this article.
Those of you who’ve 'been there, done that' might learn something new.     Read the full article.
 

How do you meet likeminded people?

Well there's the swingers clubs we mentioned. Some are genuine while others
are filled with single men and hookers. You really need to be experienced
in the lifestyle to know which are the genuine ones.

Others raise the subject with couples they know, which can be 
embarrassing for all concerned if they don't agree with the practice!

There are some excellent swingers magazines on the newsstands
where you can read profiles and see photos of interested couples.
Of course, if you have not discussed this with your partner, you
might not want to be caught reading one of these magazines. 

The fast and discrete  way of making contact these days is through 
Internet Contact Sites.

When you know where to look, you can easily find:

 Couples of all descriptions (Female, Male & Mixed Couples), 
who are seeking another couple for swinging parties.

Couples looking for a Male or Female for a "Threesome".

Husbands wanting to share their wife with another man.

Wives wanting to share their man with another woman,

(Singles are welcome too and can  be matched with a 
Male, Female or Mixed couple for some discrete fun.)

When you find an interesting couple (or they find you), you discretely make
initial contact by anonymous email and take some time get to know each other a
little better. After you have talked for a while, if you still seem to be like-minded,
we suggest you arrange to meet somewhere neutral for a drink where you can
decide if you truly are compatible. If you or your partner feel uncomfortable,
remember you only met for drinks and there's no need to take it any further.
On the other hand if you do all hit it off and everyone consents - you are in
for the most wildly exciting time of your lives!

Here are the most popular Internet contact sites for Swingers

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